The funny thing about love is that it can come at the most unexpected times. You can completely not even be looking and the right person will fall into your lap. It is like they were plucked from the sky and just set down like you are both pieces of a board game that go together.
However, in order to achieve this love, you might have to change the way you approach dating. If you’re a follower of astrology, you know that your zodiac sign influences a lot of the kind of person you are.
Your sign’s personality traits might clash with others, and even hold you back from finding love. There are some things you may need to change about yourself (change is good!) to find the love you’re looking for.
Aries (March 21st – April 19th)
Know what you are looking for.
One of the major reasons why your relationships didn’t work out was because you didn’t invest enough time and thought in judging the person before you fell head over heels for them. You rushed in without carefully analyzing them and their lifestyle.
Take sufficient time in knowing and understanding that person before you emotionally involve yourself with someone. Of course, you can never truly know a person inside out but at least take the little step of knowing the person better first and then decide if the person has qualities you’re looking for.
Taurus (April 20th – May 20th)
Leave the past behind.
A huge part of your energy was spent on being haunted by the ghost of past. Do not do the same anymore. Allow life to happen. Yes, you indeed may have had some heartbreaking incidences which had led you to become cold and skeptical about love and affection but please know that not everybody is the same. Bad things happen but so do good things. Leave the past memories behind. Take it off your shoulder and start all over again with an open mind.
Gemini (May 21st – June 20th)
Self-help is the best help.
You should work on self-betterment. Most of the things that crumbled down happened maybe because you weren’t self-aware. You thought you knew what you wanted but the reality was different.
Start with self-love. Spend more time in finding yourself. Learn to adore yourself. This way you’ll have a clear picture of what you bring to the table and also about what you exactly want from others. This will also save the wastage of energy and emotions of both parties. Make a home within yourself.
Cancer (June 21st – July 22nd)
Brush that burden off your shoulders.
You spent days after days thinking and reminiscing about what happened in the past. You had a lot of questions desired to be answered. You had too many what ifs and buts. Don’t repeat the same mistake this year. This life is too short to think about what could’ve happened if you did things differently. Believe in the power of the present. Good or bad, accept your past and walk ahead with your life. While you’re on your own journey, you’ll find love. You won’t have to look for it because it’s going to come to you and you’ll feel it.
Leo (July 23rd – August 22nd)
Be a little rational.
It’s good to follow your heart but it’s dumb to shut your brains. You used to think from your heart and that is why it didn’t work out. Remember, love doesn’t demand dumbness. The other side of love demands a lot of rationality and practicality.
See things as and what they are and accept it even if it hurts. One of the worst things you can do to yourself is turning a blind eye to wrongs hoping that if you pretend to not see it they won’t exist.
Virgo (August 23rd – September 22nd)
Don’t be so harsh on yourself.
You were completely opposite to a Leo. Don’t be as harsh as you were in the past. Just know that if things have to go south, they will. Even if you place everything in perfect order, they will fall if they have to. Believe in Gods’ plan and enjoy the present. Rest your brain cells for whatever has to happen, will anyway happen.
Libra (September 23rd – October 22nd)
Make decisions and stick to them.
A lot of your emotions were wasted on unworthy people. You spent a lot of time trying to fix things that were in pieces. Don’t push yourself beyond a point and make sure you aren’t the only one struggling to make things work out. Remember it’s a relationship of two. And if anyone of you isn’t willing to work, you need to let it go because it’s clearly not worth it. You deserve more than just fighting constant battles.
Scorpio (October 23rd – November 21st)
Give love a chance and let it take over you.
You used to do everything in your power to avoid love. You were overwhelmed with the concept of love and commitments. Well, try something different this year. Give love a chance and let it take over you. No, don’t rush into anyone and everyone in the name of love. Just keep your guards down and when love comes to you, hug it with open arms. And hug it tight.
Sagittarius (November 22nd – December 21st)
Have a positive outlook.
You rushed into love. You were so impatient or maybe in love with the idea of love that you probably didn’t focus on the other important aspects. This year, don’t rush, don’t crawl. Have a positive outlook on love and be open to it.
Capricorn (December 22nd – January 19th)
Be your own kind of beautiful.
You are so concerned about what others thought of you. You lost grip on yourself in order to please people and get their attention. Don’t repeat it anymore. Be the original version of yourself and be truly unapologetic about it. Those who have to love you will do it only and only due to your authenticity and those who don’t? Well, you don’t need them.
Aquarius (January 20th – February 18th)
If it feels right, maybe it is.
Don’t be stuck in situations that do not serve a healthy purpose in your life anymore. If something feels right, do it. Do not ignore your intuitions. Try to work more on yourself. Involve yourself in new things. Pick up a new hobby or something. You’re likely to find love when you least expect it.
Pisces (February 19th – March 20th)
Find a better reason.
Find better reasons to love people. Don’t just stick to the materialistic aspect or physical. Love people for the human that they are. Look for quality. Because at the end of the day what really matters is which kind of person you’re sharing your life with. Once you love someone for who they are as a person, every other reason will seem to be less important.