A Gemini is a complex character, something that a lot of people may not see.
What most see is an inconsistent and sociable personality and someone who loves to talk and has fun at all times.
Beneath the easy going exterior, however, lies an intense individual waiting for the opportune moment to show their true colors.
If you get to know them, they are definitely the ones you should have in your life. Here are the top signs you are a true Gemini.
1. Once you get started talking, it could be a while before you stop
It’s not just about small talk for a Gemini, though they’re great at that too (and totally at ease at cocktail parties among acquaintances and strangers) – Gemini personalities love to get lost in heady, hours-long discussions in search of new information.
As a Gemini, you will strike up conversations with just about anybody, you can’t help it, you want to know everyone’s story.
You’re enchanting and attracts many lovers.
Oh, let’s face it, you are the star of the show at any party or event, with your elegant style and effortless charisma.
Gemini is desirable for their ability to stimulate all of your senses, and arouse your mind, emotions and energy all at once.
A Gemini lover is unforgettable. You are up to any challenge that your lover might have for you in bed and twins love variety.
2. You really are the life of the party
You love attending social gatherings because you love communicating with other people.
This is the reason why the astrological sign Gemini is known to be the most sociable sign of them all.
You’re versatile and chatty and fun to be around – everyone at the party is happy to see you show up.
That being said, too much flitting around can lead others to think of you as somewhat superficial.
3. You’re a liiiittle indecisive.
Geminis, because they’re good at seeing the pros in any two given options, can have a hard time making decisions and sticking to them.
Your flexibility is a gift, but it can easily slide into wishy-washiness if you’re not careful.
By the same token, it can be hard for you to take a side and stick to it.
That Geminis can see both sides of an issue is a practical quality, and often in helpful in questions of pragmatism.
But for friends of the Gemini, it can be frustrating to not know what kind of advice they can expect, and some might consider you fickle.
4. You have a hard time sitting still
Geminis don’t like to stay in any one place for too long and they tend to be always on the go and on some mission or another.
Because Geminis are so energetic, and because their minds are always running, a Gemini can quickly become bored and fidgety if there isn’t anyone (or anything) interesting around to engage with.
They have a restless soul that craves new experiences and they can feel suffocated by too much repetition and routine.
5. HOWEVER, you’re always ready to sit down and listen to your friends’ various problems. You’re a very supportive and encouraging friend
When “just hearing someone out” is what a friend needs, Geminis are a great go-to. Your love of conversation (and gossip!) makes you a great recipient for long-winded rants.
You are very generous with your friends, you will spend lots of time with them and share everything with them.
When one of your friends or loved ones, have problems you often pick up on it instinctively before a word is even said about it… and you will then go out of your way to make sure they are okay.
You always know exactly what to say to make someone feel better and are great at giving advice that is actually helpful.
A useful tip for Gemini’s friends, do not however, bog a Gemini down with all of your emotional problems, they don’t want to deal with it because it depresses them and steps on their freedom if you need too much long term help, support and follow up.
Even though Gemini is a social butterfly, they always need time for themselves and that should be respected.
6. You approach problems rationally and logically
Geminis are always an asset in the workplace, for they are able to approach problems unemotionally and with clear focus.
This can make more sensitive signs feel that Geminis are cold or calculating, but Geminis prefer to consider themselves as merely reasonable.
One downfall of Gemini is their superficiality.
Instead of looking deep into a person’s real qualities, Gemini will judge a person by the way they treat them.
That is why they often create a bad impression about the other person, which can of course cause certain problems between their relationships with each other.
7. Your childlike energy will keep you forever young
Geminis are REALLY childish. You often find out the hard way that fart jokes aren’t deemed funny or appropriate to most ‘normal’ adults.
Geminis are frequently described as “eternally youthful,” light, and exuberant.
The downside of these otherwise great qualities is that Geminis can be willfully naive if it means preserving their innocence.
8. You are more socially flexible than other people you know
Most Geminis are well known for being one of the most versatile and adaptable personalities in all of the zodiac and they can adjust to new surroundings and circumstances a lot faster than many of the other signs!
One of the benefits of being a Gemini is to be able to change who you are to fit the time, place, and people you are with.
As a Gemini, when the shit hits the fan, you’re more than capable of rolling with the punches no matter what life throws your way.
This flexibility of persona makes you adaptable to any social situation. You make friends with people easily, but you hate fake people.